By: Cashondra "Cash" Roberson
(There is no better feeling than when the thirst is mutual.)
So if you only see or speak to your crush “sometimes” (aka when THEY feel like being bothered) this may be a sign they are not that into you. Sure, when you do talk it may be for hours, but if a week can go by without them replying to so much as a snapchat from you, maybe its time to let it go. If they are really feeling you, they will at least try to make getting to know you a priority. Lets be honest, if you feel the need to talk to them everyday but they have no interest in doing the same on a regular basis, they are probably focusing their attention on something or SOMEONE more important to them. We all have our quirks but you should never allow yourself to be someone’s backup plan or toy that they only play with when they are bored or when its convenient for them.
DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT attempt to change their mind!
Sometimes love happens when you are not looking but chances are if they tell you they are NOT looking, they mean it. Eventually you have to come to the conclusion that you are right for someone but if that person is not looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right, then they probably are not right for you.
THey Want The Milk For Free
Often I was caught between “If you cannot see how great I am then that is your loss” and “stop being blind, and cuff me!”
Both of which got me nowhere.
“If you don’t love yourself, how the hell can you love somebody else?”- RuPaul